This is not a memory of an event,it will be the memory of who she was. My sister-in-law was the incarnation of the fruit of the Holy Spirit. The Epistle of Galations says in Chapter 5, verse 22 "The fruit of the Spirit is LOVE, JOY, PEACE, LONGSUFFERING, KINDNESS, GOODNESS, FAITHFULNESS, GENTLENESS, AND SELF-CONTROL." Anyone who knew her knows she embodied all of these qualities. I believe it was and is the gift of the Holy Spirit indwelling Helen. I praise God for that, and I thank him that I had her for a sister-in-law, whom I sometimes thought of as more of a mother-in-law. (I don't know why)